Thursday, May 16, 2013

Incomplete yet perfect!!


Maybe I'll sing for you someday in languages only we both will know, but till then, lets just be silent.
Maybe you'll get to know some day how much I yearn to be in your thoughts,
Maybe it will all fall into the right place someday, and maybe we'll meet
Or maybe I'll grow up, and you will be somewhere in my memories, long forgotten, just like an imaginary friend.


What is love? Deep introspection only makes me realise that no one really knows what it is about. If we knew, everything would have been perfect. having learnt from experiences, everything has a loophole, I have come to believe the same exists when it comes to love.  People live their whole life with this misconception that love happens once in a lifetime, we do love our parents, friends, and so many people, doesn't that provide a paradoxical view? 


Someone told me a very good thing which I remember very clearly, satisfy your own needs before satisfying others needs. If you are busy satisfying other people needs instead of our own, then sooner or later you will start regretting many things in your life. We always think that it’s too late to act  and end up spending our whole life with regret. 


Life is a compromise but not at the cost of your dreams and goals. Why? Who the hell anyone is to govern your own life? Who the hell are you to govern someone’s life? Once you satisfy yourself, you do what you always wanted to do then only you can satisfy others. 

Life is tough, but we can make it easy. Doesn’t matter how rough is the situation; it’s never too late to act.
Someday sooner or later people are meant to leave us. We have to accept it the way it comes doesn’t matter what the situation was, how true your love was or how great friends you were It’s the same in every case.  It’s true that if such things happen definitely we will be sad. The important realisation we need to have here is simple; Like Love, relations you build are eternal. It depends completely upon you as to where you would like to go with them. All a relationship needs, is fulfilment on two counts - Love and understanding. If you have both, that relation is eternal.


Life moves on, it doesn’t matter how rough the situation is, one day there has to be a dawn. Same way we should learn to move on, come out of the misconception that in a whole lifetime only once we can fall in love. I contradict this; you can fall as many times as you want. And people who tag you as emotionless or easy going let them do that, as people who can’t move on in their life can’t do anything worthwhile. 

Life is all about moving on treasuring the memories of your past and keep on moving till the time you are freed from this universe. One has to accept few things the way it comes. You can’t force people to be with you forever, everyone has a certain time limit in your life, they will stay till that time comes and then they will leave you on your own. Instead of brooding over it, make that time worthwhile for each and every person who is there in your life. And then see how your life will bloom.


No one is good and no one is bad, it’s the situations which sometimes turn them into an angel and sometimes into Satan's evil child. It’s not only you who has a problem; there are over 7 billion people all over the world with 7 billion different fates. And each one of them has some issues with life. Nothing is perfect, if it was then there was no need of God or the power which balances the whole system the whole universe. Obstacles are a part of life, they teach us at every point of time. Whenever we face something out of the box then that means there is a need of learning something which we are actually lacking. And that’s how one gains experience, few take it in a good spirit and use that negative energy to do wonders in life.  


This is how I sum it all up, life gives you lessons,  experiences and situations.. some complete yet imperfect, some incomplete, yet perfect.